I have a nectar mattress which is pretty comfy.

If you lived near me I would take you, I can drive at least. Just can’t walk for crap! I don’t know your age but if a senior, might senior services be able to arrange for a ride for you?

Good luck to you and keep me updated if you get anything done that helps you. My best...

Well, as you know I’ll try almost anything to relieve the constant pain. I’ll let you know if the ablation helps after I’ve given it a few weeks. Take care of yourself!

You’re so sweet, Lorraine. I have bought a Puffy bed and ordered a platform so my daughter and son-in-law will set it up when the platform arrives. I got the firmer one. The memory foam ones move too much with body position and for my back that’s not a good thing. I have 100 days to try it with a free return policy if I decide it’s not right. Just had radio frequency Ablation done T the SI joint this past Friday so spending the weekend with my butt on ice packs so we’ll see if that helps at all. Right now very sore and stiff but it takes a few weeks for the nerves to settle down so I’ll know soon whether or not it helps. Fingers crossed! Will let you all know how the bed works out.