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Members overwhelmingly described becoming significantly more inflexible following their injuries or chronic conditions, with many comparing... Read more

Members overwhelmingly described becoming significantly more inflexible following their injuries or chronic conditions, with many comparing their bodies to rigid objects like timber, armor, or boards, and sharing specific losses such as being unable to turn their heads without moving their entire upper body or needing to sit down to put on socks. Several members found some relief through interventions like spinal fusion surgeries, Myobloc injections for muscle spasms, or learning to adapt and compensate, though most acknowledged their bodies would never move the same way they once did. A recurring theme was grief over lost abilities like pole dancing, cartwheels, and active lifestyles, balanced with resilience and a redefinition of flexibility to include emotional adaptability and willingness to accept new limitations.